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March 13, 2022January 29, 2023

How I deal with a long-distance relationship- not easy. 1 thing we keep having starts with a C; life-changing

Love Language to work a Long-Distance Relationship

Since July 17th, 2021 I am in a long-distance relationship with my American boyfriend. I am surviving it, but it hasn’t been easy. The relationship itself stands on its own and the only work we needed to do is communicating with each other. Constant and every day conversations. What t.f. would we communicate about every single day, you might ask? Well, for starters about his day, or mine. Me wanting to just have someone to listen to me, while he still sleeps. Keep in mind that our time difference is -4 hours on his side. When he still sleeps, my day already is bright and sunny or rainy, depends on the season. And the best part most of the times is his handsome face I just want to see or be annoyed by.

October 17, 2021October 31, 2021

A playlist for every story to tell

Why haven’t I written in so long? The short answer is that I have had so much self awareness, that at a certain point I was to content with myself and it was not necessary to share anymore, at least for me. I thought that I have no specific story to tell.

Nobody has not nothing to say. It’s almost impossible; even the person with a standard life pattern has something to tell, even though it is a story of getting up, going to work, getting back home – sleep and repeat. One day something might change.

April 13, 2021October 31, 2021

How should dating 101 be, like in a movie?

My perspective on dating is from movies. Movies has romanticize love and dating. ‘You are at a party and never recognized this young man, who saw you before you even notice him. There were three moments in life where you meet. One day you bumped into him and noticed his eyes. ‘Sorry’. ‘It’s ok’ he says. Than you start wondering and looked back at him- ‘Have we met?’ ‘I think so,’ he says, ‘maybe you will not recognize me, but I have seen you at three parties’. ‘You mean the New Years Eve parties?’ ‘Yes.’ As you are you are curious and want to know more, of why you never talked. What happend in the movie is that this story leads to a very cute, and super awesome story with a much more complicated twist, but both seem to figure it out in the end.

January 25, 2021

Continue the process of realization 2.0: Dating & Relationship

The realization on dating & relationship I have the past month haven’t changed. Well, maybe a little bit, but not drastically. What haven’t change is the way I viewed my dating & relationship. My relationship has mostly been intimate and sexual. In 2019 I experienced a more personal & romantic relation with another person. Currently I am living in the United States of America for 6 months. The prior goal for me staying in this ‘land of opportunity’ is because of a fellowship. You already kind of know me; a people person that needs connection. In addition to the fellows who also participate in this fellowship, I want to get to know new people, in this COVID time. What is the best time? What shall my approach be?